Monday, May 14, 2012
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Dear Mate,
Many people often mocked
me that I am ugly. I feel like I
will never have anyone love me because I am so ugly. Since a few weeks ago, there was a guy that I talked to
often via online chatting. We have never met in person and I am afraid
when I meet him, he hates my looks. I am afraid I
am going to lose him as a friend and that he will never talk to me again.
What can I do to be prettier, Mate? Thank you so much for your
solution.
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Social media is very popular right now. Everything has been set up in easy way by internet, including social media like chatting online. Talking online or called chatting is an easy way to communicate with people, new people or our closest friends and family.
ReplyDeleteMeeting people in online chatting is easy but the hardest part is meeting the person in real life. Some worries about ‘am I look ugly?’ or ‘Is he a handsome guy?’ are things that always been thought.
Look attractive is important, but I think someone who is friendly with other people because they are normally like that, just like who the way you are, is more important. So, after you meet the guy and he avoided you, it means he is not become your friend sincerely, he just look at you for your physically.
Anyway, to make you prettier for meet the guy, you can try to change your hair style, or just touch up your face with a simple make up or maybe just try some of new clothes to match your style. I think those are one of the way to make you look prettier. Good luck for your meeting!
I am sorry to hear your problem mate. You are ugly. But I think it doesn’t matter.
ReplyDeleteIf I were you, I would always be myself. Don’t care what people said about you. Because I think they never know who the real you.
Just be yourself. Just show who you are. You are you. Just try to make up as you. Following style is good, you can get it from magazine, internet, etc. If u feel match with that just use it, but if no feel match just leave it.
Open your mind, learn the sciences, make a friend with all people, give a goodness. In my opinion, beauty inside is more important than outside.
Every person wants themselves become handsome/beautiful. One reason which make themselves want to be handsome/beautiful is to have many friend to be their daily soulmate.
ReplyDeleteIn fact, if there is jealous person, he/she usually say that we are ugly. After hear them said, we usually become nervous even to meet person. I think if someone says that you ugly, you should go home, go to the mirror and see your self is any mistakes there. If there is mistake in yourself, repair it as soon as possible.
You have to be confidence with your look because no body’s perfect in this world. You have to appreciate yourself. Everybody is pretty. The important thing is your attitude. If you have good personality, you will look more beautiful. Everyone can judge you from your kindness in your heart.
We are as a woman should keep our beauty, Mate, because beauty is a gift of God which is only possessed by every woman, therefore we must continue keeping that beauty can shine on the face us.
ReplyDeleteTo maintain the beauty maybe we can take care of him by going to the salon to take care of our face,
Believe in yourself, do not listen to what anybody else says. Perhaps you are correct that you are ugly, but do not worry there are many salons out there that can improve your appearance.
What is out there give thanks to you, try to be yourself, never be ashamed to admit who you are or how you, if you want to beautify themselves, try to start from small things and the best of it, could also come into the salon, if not can also mean you are ugly.
ReplyDeleteYou should be thankful to the Almighty. not have to be humble when people say that you are not pretty let it go. And if you can transform it into its own identity to obey your conscience to do the best they can.
Do not trust people and be yourself. To make it look attractive, you can improve yourself in the salon or something. The important thing is trust yourself not to others.