Dear Mate,
I am so confuse. Right
now I'm studying in a senior high school and my seniors often disturbed me.
They often forced me to do some bad things, for example, asked for money to my
friends. If I refused them, they would mock, kick or bet me. They always did
those things to their weak juniors, like me. What do I have to do now? I had no
power against them. Need your help, Mate. Thanks.
Seniors who forced their junior to obey their order is really serious problem among senior high school student. Most of senior high school student experience this, Mate.
ReplyDeleteIn my opinion, something like this happen for generations. Their old senior did that for their junior and from that moment on.
They are admit that they may have more powers than their junior, so they can force their junior to do anything they want. Most of junior afraid to refuse their senior’s order because they think they may be bullied for the rest of their life in school.
Something like this won’t happen if the senior is loving and care for their junior and the junior show some respect to their senior as well.
So my suggestion for you, show them your respectfulness but you have to be brave to refuse if they asked for bad things to do. Throw away some worries about you’d been bullied because I’m sure that they won’t disturbed someone who’s brave.
Well mate, I know that what you are facing is a difficult problem. You were forced doing something bad, though you didn’t like it.
ReplyDeleteBut I need to say this, “it would be just a moment”, it will not take longer, I think just follow what they want, it would be better, than you get some punishment if you refused them.
You have no power to fight it? Right? I knew you were in difficult situation, but you had to face it.
Everything has a wisdom. Minimally, you could think that was bad and don’t do that to your next juniors.
Well mate, I would feel so sad if i were you. You are just an honest and good person that can do nothing to your evil senior. I will give my best advice that i do for you to quit from this problem.
ReplyDeleteI think the senior didn’t get attention from the other so they need more attention. And they want to get the attention by forced their juniors. The juniors like you must be brave facing this problem you must say that you are good person and you didn’t have problem with them.
I hope you still dare enough to say it in front of them. If they didn’t change you must do the last chance. The last chance is you must say it to your teacher. In usual teacher is more being scared by bad boys like your seniors. They will feel guilty and didn’t force you again.
Hey mate, you have a serious problem in school. This action is one of bullying action. Why do I say like this?
ReplyDeleteFirst, your seniors threat your freedom. They do not have privilege to do that. Second, if you let it flow, you will make them more crude to others students in your school. You must be brave man, don't afraid with your senior , if you not wrong , just punch him and walk away from him.i have any idea, my suggest , if you still disturb by your senior just punch him and say " DONT , DISTURB ME "
You should bring this case to your teacher, so that your teacher can help you all from this bullying. I think you should report to the teacher or your parents because if you say anything then you will always be troubled by the seniors.
Okay Mate, in my opinion, this is actually a dangerous thing. you need to act immediately or promptly report to the teacher if you do not immediately report you will often oppressed by your seniors
ReplyDeleteIf it's only a weak bullying, just walk away while saying "I don't care".
if they wanna beat you up and you can do martial-arts or self defense, you can practice it to those "uneducated" senior. if you can't do any martial arts, just use your mouth, "mouth is the best weapon ever" plus your brain if you're smart enough, it can be the best "sword and shield".
Tell your teacher about it, Mate, but don't forget you must show the prove or the witness. I suggest we should be patient, all her children there, if you do not feel strong report it to the teacher or principal.