Wednesday, May 2, 2012

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Dear Mate,
Sometimes, I feel confuse how I can be a useful person for many people, but without ignore my family need. For example, I teach poor children without salary maybe. What should I do? Any suggestion, Mate? Thank you.

5 comments:

  1. NUR KHAMIM (25)09:36

    NUR KHAMIM (25)
    People who are responsible for their family is a good people. As a human, we can’t live without anyone else, so helping each other is really needed, especially our own family.
    Doing some good things for social is a must for human, for helping them from their problems. Also when we are helping other people like teach poor children without salary is very good things. It is very helping poor children to get their education without have to expensive to pay but we can’t deny our family needs because it’s the first priority in life. Family are people who always stand by us, always there when we need them so we can’t make them as a second priority.
    I think when you want to teach poor children you must have a permanent job. So, when you don’t get salary for what you’ve done, you are still have a salary paid from other job. So you are still can fulfill your family needs.

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  2. SISC R. RAMADHANI (28)10:03

    Well mate, I know that what you are facing is a difficult problem. You want to be a useful person without ignoring your family needs.
    In my opinion, be useful person is good, we can feel what people feel. Help them as we can. Use our abilities for helping them. And it is fun. That is a good idea and a good choice. Don’t be confused, Mate, I will support you one hundred percent.
    My suggestion is being useful person, it is good, but do not forget your family. However you live in this world because of them. You have felt their affections, and I think to be a wise person is you respond with kindness though they do not say that.

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  3. SON HAJI (29)10:04

    Every parent need their son become useful person to all people. But sometimes their desire are not same as our desire.
    We can hear our parent say “you must become a doctor” but we want to be a police, or “you must be a teacher” but we want to be a nurse. Sometimes there are different-face between we and our parent.
    If you have this problem, you should be your self, be your self and be your self not be your parent’s-need because the subject of our passion is us not our parent.

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  4. SINTYA DEWI (27)10:05

    Actually it’s really confusing Mate how we can be a useful person for many people, but without ignores our family need.
    I think if you want to be useful for many people, but without neglecting the needs of your family must be very clever in dividing the time on the job
    if you want to be useful for many people , without ignorance your family, so you must be wisely split your time. Your action is good. I think your parent understand your condition. You just need time to make them know it. Honestly, they will proud of you.
    My suggest is you must wisely split your time, to be useful for many people without ignorance your family. Think, you have to balance between family and the people in order to be useful.

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  5. SEPTIAN AWANG (26)10:07

    It is a problem that we face, which is to be avoided, but should we look in terms of where we went wrong and what should we do.
    I think in a way of life sometimes we often make a mess mistakes and conscious or unconscious. but just think it is a good experience for us and in a family harmony and a sense of responsibility that find our identity in achieving a successful.
    I suggest we should always strive to achieve a success and our goal is useful for us, family and other people.

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